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A Gift of
Remembrance |
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A Gift of Poetry
is a truly meaningful way of expressing your innermost
thoughts and feelings. |
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(Here's
a good example of what can be achieved. Wendy
wanted something special for her Mum and Uncle
to remember her Aunty Jill by. Wendy has kindly
given her permission for her poem and story to
be published) |
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Paint A Picture |
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What
is your name? |
Wendy Hubbard |
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Who
do you want the poem written for? |
My mum (Brenda Hubbard) and
Uncle Graham (Graham Allen) |
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Why
do you want the poem written? |
My Aunty
Jill lost a long battle against Lupus and
sadly passed away on 22nd October 2004.
I want a memory for my mum (Jill's sister)
and Uncle graham to remember what a fantastic
lady she was. |
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What
are the key messages you would like to send? |
She was
a perfectionist in every thing she did.
Very loving lady and very courageous not
letting her illness get in the way of living
her daily life. They were married a long
time and we should rejoice in the time we
had with her and she has enriched our lives.
She is now with her son Stuart (he was severely
handicapped and died a long time ago aged
12, about 17 years ago but dates and age
I am unsure of so don't quote numbers please).
She would want us all to be happy and not
sad. |
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Do
you have any funny, sad, happy, embarrassing
or otherwise memorable moments that you
would like to share? |
She was
known as a woman who has lists for everything
(this was mentioned in her funeral and raised
a nice smile) Huge huge love of cats - took
in many waifs and strays and gave them loving
homes to live out their days. Maiden name
was Dolphin - I believe these are sleek,
elegant, immensely intelligent and much
loved as was Aunty Jill. |
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Do
you have any other comments or thoughts? |
A rock
- certainly an inspiration to me to make
the best of my life. Maybe a reference to
sunflowers as I chose these for her flowers
as they track the sun and follow the light. |
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What
style of poem would you prefer (happy, sad,
romantic etc.)? |
Combination
of happy and sad really - it's something
we want to read and maybe shed a tear as
we remember here but also to make us happy
as we rejoice in her life and the love and
kindness she always gave to us. |
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Please
choose which package you would prefer? |
Unique |
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Do
you have any last comments or thoughts? |
The trademark
or logo for the Lupus illness is a butterfly.
Maybe a reference to opening up her wings,
being free or something linked along those
lines to butterflies main things we need
to achieve is she is free now and we are
to be happy |
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Paint A Picture |
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These last years have simply flown by,
I can't believe the past months have gone
so fast,
and I just wanted to say a few words,
and I've got a feeling they're going to last. |
You see, I just wanted
to celebrate Aunty Jill's life,
to remember the time she spent on planet Earth,
because truly, she was simply a fantastic
lady,
and she proved just what one life could be
worth. |
She was a perfectionist in everything she
did, "if it was worth doing it was
worth doing right",
and she made this world a brighter place,
and I would like to thank her for sharing
her light. |
Aunty Jill was indeed,
a very loving lady,
and at times, her heart was too big for her
chest,
but of all the Aunties in this world, I know
I'm lucky,
I'm lucky because I had one of the very best. |
She was a very courageous lady,
she just would not let her illness get in
the way,
and I know she loved Uncle Graham to bits,
"I do" were her best words,
spoken on your wedding day. |
It's nice to know that
Stuart was waiting for her,
I think of them both, in the heavens above,
but they are both still with us, every day,
and every day, they're still sending out their
love. |
And I know Aunty Jill had a list for everything,
but she won't have created a wistful list,
because she'll be happy with her memories,
the last time we laughed, the last time we
kissed. |
She's probably welcoming
in cats as we speak,
as you know, she had a soft spot for waifs
and strays,
over the years, she took in so very many,
and gave them a loving home for the rest of
their days. |
Her maiden name was quite aptly; "Dolphin",
and that sums up Aunty Jill so very well,
she was sleek, elegant and extremely intelligent,
very much loved (by now, I hope you can surely
tell). |
I'd like to attempt
to paint some sort of picture,
because Aunty Jill was a rock, she was certainly
mine,
she taught me to make the best out of my life,
to get the very last drop out of every single
line. |
But truly, she was also my sunflower,
tall, proud, beautiful and following the sun,
and I just wanted to remember Aunty Jill,
I wanted to thank her for everything she ever
done. |
So I guess that's my
picture, a dolphin, sitting on a rock,
but wait, there's the sunflower, brightening
the shade,
and of course, along comes a beautiful butterfly,
having just hatched (a decision she never
made). |
But before, that butterfly was trapped
and couldn't fly,
but now she's free, free to open and spread
her wings,
and of course, I do believe in the miraculous,
so now she's free to do all sorts of marvelous
things. |
And whatever shape or
form those things take,
well, I guess we'll just have to wait for
them to unfold,
but in the meantime, I know Aunty Jill will
always be with us,
and now I'm glad, because so far, her story
has been told. |
Copyright
Allen Jesson :) 2004 www.agiftofpoetry.com |
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"Hello
Thank you Thank you Thank you - it arrived on
Friday and it's fantastic. I appreciate everything
you guys have done for me and I am going to take
it to my uncle tomorrow.
I have recommended your site to a number of people
once again, thank you very much
wendie" |
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